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Prison Rumors & Jail Scams

Do inmates form relationships to get money from people?

Do inmates befriend people that could be potential partners on the outside to get them to send money and stuff?

Yes, inmates absolutely will try to befriend people that they communicate with to do favors for them and more.
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Answered by a former federal inmate · 14+ years advising families
✓ Verified answer January 04,2016 · Prison Rumors & Jail Scams
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Yes, inmates absolutely will try to befriend people that they communicate with to do favors for them and more. Since there is so much idle time available, inmates become experts at manipulation but the person they are communicating with has to be complicit. As they say, "it takes two to tango". It starts out innocently like a pen pal relationship but it can grow into more than that, and oftentimes it does. Inmates have even married some of their suitors. The person on the outside has to use some common sense and not believe everything they hear, make sure to take things slowly and if you are going to send [magazines](https://www.inmateaid.com/shop/magazines), books or even money, stay in control and don't go broke trying make the inmate happy. They will survive with or without outside help, the institution sees to that.

Accepted Answer Date Created: January 04,2016
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About this answer: This response was prepared by InmateAid’s editorial team in consultation with former inmates who have direct experience with the federal correctional system. InmateAid has served families of the incarcerated since 2012. This is general information only — not legal advice. Last reviewed April 2026.