Reviewed on: April 05,2026
Visitation

Can inmates change their visitor list

My boyfriend is in the city jail and has a list of approved visitors. If a friend not on that list wants to visit, is he able to make changes to this list? Could his friend come with an approved person to visit?

In most city and county jails, inmates are allowed to update their approved visitor list, but it is not always immediate and must follow the facility’s process.
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✓ Verified answer March 31,2013 · Visitation
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In most city and county jails, inmates are allowed to update their approved visitor list, but it is not always immediate and must follow the facility’s process.

Your boyfriend can usually request to add or remove people from his list by submitting a form or making the change through his counselor or classification officer. Some facilities allow updates regularly, while others only allow changes during certain time periods.

If someone is not on the approved list, they will not be allowed to visit, even if they come with someone who is approved. Each visitor must be individually cleared before being granted access.

The best steps are:

  • Have your boyfriend add the friend to his list as soon as possible
  • Make sure the friend completes any required application or approval process
  • Wait for confirmation before attempting to visit

Until the person is officially approved, the facility will turn them away.

Accepted Answer Date Created: March 31,2013
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About this answer: This response was prepared by InmateAid’s editorial team in consultation with former inmates who have direct experience with the federal correctional system. InmateAid has served families of the incarcerated since 2012. This is general information only — not legal advice. Last reviewed April 2026.