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Subject: Relationship Issues

how do I get the county jail to approve my visiting application with my ex-husband but working on reconciliation after denial based on felony conviction from 2011-2012 and I have been discharged from parole successfully with no violations

If your visitation application with your ex-husband at the county jail was denied due to your felony conviction from 2011-2012, there are steps you can take to potentially get your application reconsidered, especially since you've completed parole without any violations. Here’s how to approach the situation: 1. Understand the Jail's Visitation Policy: Review the specific visitation guidelines and policies of the county jail where your ex-husband is incarcerated. Many facilities have strict rules regarding visitors with felony convictions, but some allow exceptions on a case-by-case basis, particularly if significant time has passed and the individual has demonstrated rehabilitation. 2. Submit a Written Request for Reconsideration: Write a formal letter to the jail's visitation coordinator, warden, or the facility's administration requesting reconsideration of your application. In your letter, highlight the following: Completion of Parole: Emphasize that you successfully completed your parole with no violations. Rehabilitation Efforts: Mention any positive changes you've made since your conviction, such as stable employment, involvement in community service, education, or other rehabilitative programs. Reason for Visit: Clearly explain your intentions for wanting to visit, focusing on your efforts toward reconciliation and the importance of maintaining family connections for both you and your ex-husband. 3. Provide Supporting Documentation: Attach any relevant documents that support your request, such as: A copy of your parole discharge certificate Letters of recommendation from parole officers, employers, counselors, or community leaders Any certificates of completion from rehabilitation, educational, or vocational programs 4. Obtain Support from Your Ex-Husband's Case Manager or Counselor: If possible, have your ex-husband speak with his case manager, counselor, or chaplain at the jail. These staff members can sometimes advocate on your behalf, especially if they believe that your visits would have a positive impact on his rehabilitation or well-being. 5. Be Patient and Follow Up Respectfully: After submitting your request, allow some time for the jail's administration to review it. Follow up with a polite phone call or email to inquire about the status of your application. Persistence, combined with a respectful approach, can sometimes help in getting a second look. 6. Consider Involving Legal Counsel or an Advocate: If your request is denied again, you may want to seek assistance from an attorney or an advocate specializing in inmate visitation rights. They can help you navigate the process and ensure your rights are considered. By demonstrating rehabilitation, maintaining a respectful and honest approach, and providing comprehensive documentation, you can increase your chances of having the visitation application reconsidered.

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